Suddenly, destinations like Japan and Europe have become immensely appealing to Singaporeans, especially with the recent ticket sales sparking a wanderlust amongst young people. While the prospect of traveling is undoubtedly exciting, it prompts reflection on our dependence on travel as a source of happiness.
Take Control of your own Happiness
As someone deeply invested in promoting happiness and well-being, I firmly believe that true happiness comes from within. External factors like material possessions or career advancements may offer temporary joy, but they often leave us wanting more. We need to recognize that our happiness is ultimately our responsibility. While achieving goals and experiencing new things can enrich our lives, relying solely on them to fill our happiness cup sets us up for disappointment when they inevitably fall short.
The Escapist’s Ticket to Happiness
In recent weeks, there has been a frenzy of travel bookings out of Singapore. The excitement is palpable as people eagerly plan their escapes, anticipating adventure and cherished memories. However, beneath the surface, there’s a lingering concern about what awaits upon return. Our hopes and dreams are pinned on these trips, but what happens when reality doesn’t meet our expectations? What happens when we come back to Singapore?
Find Happiness in the Present
Research suggests that our perception of happiness evolves with age, with a peak of unhappiness around middle age before gradually increasing again. While external circumstances play a role, our sense of happiness is also influenced by our beliefs and daily habits. Personally, I find joy in simple pleasures like a comfortable home, quality sleep, and taking time for self-care. These are aspects of life within my control.
Ultimately, I’m reminded that happiness isn’t contingent on external circumstances or grand adventures. It’s about finding contentment and fulfillment in the present moment, regardless of where we are. As Singapore navigates its path toward reopening and recovery, it’s crucial to cultivate a sense of satisfaction and appreciation for what we have. Only then can we truly embrace life and all its possibilities, whether at home or abroad.
Let’s strive to be the architects of our own happiness, finding joy in the here and now while remaining open to the adventures that lie ahead.